Flipside Christian Church

church, I want to, acknowledge,

my friend Pastor Freddy
sitting right back here in his.

And, Freddy, I'm glad you're here, pastor.

I'm glad you're here.

But can you hear me, pastor?

Yeah.

Pastor Freddy is
is is leading the church that we started

when, when we were three years old,

we started a church
with a man named John Brown Koski.

And, Pastor Freddy has taken that over,

and he is leading that well in Fresno.

Loving on people
that need the love of Jesus,

serving people that are underserved.

And he is with us this morning.

And thank you.

And, I'm going to ask on your behalf.

Best, Freddy,
that some of our prayer people,

certainly John and Laura
and Scott and Brenda and you,

when this service is over,
you spend some time praying

over, over, pastor Freddy.

And I want all of you
to put him on your prayer list.

He's going through
some health things that,

we desire
to see God's hand move in his life.

And so, pastor,

would you allow us that honor
after the service of praying over you?

Yeah.

All right.

We're in this study of first Timothy,

and this letter from the apostle Paul

written to Timothy as, as as Paul's
young protege

was written from an older man
to a younger man.

Paul is in his probably early 60s.

And for the first century community,
that's.

That was pretty old.

He lived a long life.

It lived a hard life.

And sometimes,

the way we live adds years to our life.

You know, as far as wearing us out,
you know what I'm saying?

And so he lived a hard life, and he was
six years old, which was old anyway.

So he's he's he's
he knows is he's coming to an end.

He's in jail.

He's going to be beheaded by, Caesar Nero.

And so he's passing on some things
of utmost importance to those coming up

after him that he's leaving in charge
of these churches, that he started.

And so this young man, Timothy,

is is in charge of this

church that Paul started in the place
called Ephesus.

And Paul is charging Timothy
as a Christ follower and as a pastor.

Here are some things
that are really important,

to know and to do and to be.

And what he says to Timothy
is why I came up with this series

title, Guard and Guide, Guard Doctrine
and Guide People into it.

That's the whole theme of these letters
first Timothy, second Timothy and Titus.

Two leaders, Timothy and Titus,
three letters guard

good doctrine and biblical doctrine.

Sound doctrine.

Guard it
because people will drift away from it,

and we'll start changing stuff
and then guide people into it.

And so that's what
this whole thing is about.

And so what he started in chapters
one and two,

he said,
these things are really important.

They're paramount for the church.

And the first things Paul says
to Timothy about the church is the church

must be a place of grace.

We have to be a church of grace.

We have to be a people of grace
that understand

how much we've been forgiven,
all that God has done for us.

Not because we're worth it,
not because we're worthy,

not because we've earned it,
but by the grace of God, the unmerited

and undeserved favor and blessing of God
to grant to those who believe salvation,

and then every spiritual blessing
in the heavenly realms through Christ

given to us. This grace is profound.

Second thing Paul
said, church must be a place of grace,

must be a place of doctrine.

We have to teach good doctrine.

We have to teach biblical truth
what good doctrine is.

It's everything that's contained in here.

And we have to teach this.
We have to proclaim this.

This is the church's job in the world,
okay?

It's grace, doctrine, and then prayer.

He says the church has to be
a place of prayer.

And as I've been going through this study
in my own mind,

just thinking, Lord,
how are we doing as a church?

I think we're doing

pretty good on the grace part
and pretty good on the doctrine part.

I we're we're a church of
we understand God's grace

because we understand how rotten we are,

right? I mean, we understand.

I mean, just look to the person
on your right.

You'll understand
how rotten we are. No. I'm asking.

It's just like.

Like we get this part.

We understand grace.

And here's what I know.

Like, we don't mind messy people
because we understand grace.

Churches that don't understand
grace don't like messy people.

We understand what the Bible says.

That were sent abounds.
Grace abounds more.

We get that.

We understand how sinful we have been
and still struggle with.

So we understand

the propensity, the magnitude,
the overthrowing nature of God's grace.

And it's beautiful.

We are a very messy church,
a very messy people.

We get grace.

That's why
messy people don't mind being here.

So you don't mind being here.

We understand grace, and I think we do
a pretty good job with doctrine.

We. This is our standard.

It's always been our standard,
and we don't diverge from it. And.

And it's rubbed people
the wrong way. Praise God.

It's like whatever.

This is our this our doctrine.

But this third thing, prayer.

And here's where I think we fall short
in the error of prayer in this way.

We're
a church full of praying individuals,

but we're not a praying congregation.

We have prayerful individuals,
but not a praying congregation.

That's just an honest assessment.

Now whenever we look at Scripture,
we look at it honestly,

and it's intended to rebuke
and correct, right?

And to train for righteousness
as part of what's church supposed to be?

I think we're a church

full of of prayerful individuals,
but we're not a praying congregation.

Here's my proof.

We've, we've done this
first Tuesday prayer thing

once a month, the first Thursday
every month for a long time.

I've got about the same five people
that show up

every month.

It's an indictment on our church.

You okay?

Listen, today is not going to be fun.

It's going to be informative.

But I'm telling you

right up front, it's
why we're look at doctrine.

Because if we're not careful,
we'll just drift away.

And what makes us feel good
about ourselves.

And so I think with the grace
and the doctrine part, we're doing okay.

The praying part.

We're it's not good.

All of us pray.

All of us pray a lot, which is fantastic.

We're supposed to.

But as a congregation.

I bear full responsibility for that.

But so do you.

And so then in chapter three,

he talks about godly
leaders and godly Christians.

And it is quite a qualified list
of qualifications for what he calls

elders and deacons.

We talked about all those titles
and stuff.

That list of qualifications
is pretty profound.

But here's the thing that listed

qualifications
should be common for all Christ followers.

Like, we don't get to take a pass
just because I don't have a title.

And when you look at the qualifications,
none of those are things

that anyone would think, well, I can be
I can follow Jesus without that.

I mean, they're like,
what are the qualifications

we want to cross off the list
for someone who follows Jesus?

None of them.

And so it's

really a list of look,
this is the standard.

If we're going to call him I if I'm going
to call myself a Christ follower

and apprentice of Jesus, a disciple,
this is the standard.

And that's what chapter three is.

And then it gets into chapter four
and he says, knowing all of that.

This is what the church is to be.

This is the standard
for any Christ follower.

Then he gets to chapter four and he says,
okay, now here's the reality.

Here's what's going to happen
and here's why.

You have to be careful
to faithful leadership.

So the big idea for today in chapter four,
the big idea is this

to train like it matters.

Now Paul is going to use the word train.

And when we say train, well,
I say train like Paul does.

It means training in godliness.

So trained in godliness.

Like it matters because what we're
dealing with this is issue of godliness.

In a world gone soft.

The world has gone soft.

The church has gone soft.

And so this is Paul saying, like press
into godly training, training in godliness

because everything around us
has gone soft.

So get hard about this stuff,

you understand?

So we're going to I'm going
to press into this like Paul does.

This chapter is one of those that gets my
like my competitive juices flowing,

gets my coach juices flowing right now
because he's going to press into this.

I, I coach obviously at the high school.

I think this is year 14
or 15 for me at the high school.

I've also started coaching again
this year at the youth

level, our junior football team,
which is basically seventh graders.

And so I think it's year.

12 of that.

And so I've done multiple years,
you know, with both.

And so I was with

we had this little all the way up
camp with these seventh graders.

This week and I had these new coaches
I'm coaching with.

And I told him,
I said, here, listen, here's think

like I

when I can translate spiritual truth
on to the football field.

That's when it really makes sense to me.

And so I got my team together.

I said, you know, hey, listen.

I said, I read an ancient book.

It's called the Bible.

And that tells me that whatever I do

to do with all my heart,
whatever I put my hands

to do with all my heart,
because there's a word coming.

So whatever we do.

And I told him, whatever we do on the
football field, every practice matters.

Every drill matters.

Every rep of every drill matters.

Do it like it matters. Because it does.

Because if I can.

And still this in them
now, in the springtime

when we get to season time
and then the playoffs.

Right.

You understand
you athletes understand this.

I told don't waste to practice.
Don't waste.

Don't waste a rep.

This is what Paul sent.

Light train for God.

Don't waste

an opportunity to train

for God

because we live in a soft world.

I mean, I get this.

I told my boys

you'll find a reason
or you'll find an excuse.

Right?

On the other, I mean, you have softball.

You tell your girls

you'll find a reason to get it done,
or you'll find an excuse not to.

It's the same thing in faith. Okay?

Same thing in faith.

We got all kinds of reasons why we don't

dot dot dot.

If we wanted to, we'd find a reason.

2....

For what feels just like the faith world.

So he's going to press into this.

So let me just read. Here we go.

Verses one,
two and three of first Timothy four.

Now the spirit expressly says

that in latter times
some will depart from the faith

by devoting themselves to deceitful
spirits and teachings of demons

through the insincerity of liars
whose conscience is our seared,

who forbid marriage and require abstinence
from foods that God created

to be seed with thanksgiving
by those who believe and know the truth.

Let me just unpack this a little bit.

He's saying this is what's

going to happen in latter times.

Now there's a difference in the Bible,
which in latter times, in the last days,

latter times, the moment Jesus

ascended to heaven
until now are the latter times.

There will come a time of last days.

The last days are the few days
of the latter times.

Y'all follow.

So we are in the latter times.

We'll know when we're in the last days.

It'll get real apparent.

We're definitely in the latter times.

He says during now there will be those

who depart from the truth.

That word depart literally means apostasy.

It means they will walk away.

They will abandon the faith.

In latter times,
they will abandon the faith.

It's going to happen.

We call it deconstruction.

I've deconstructed my faith,
and now I believe something different.

I used to be a Christ follower.

Now I'm, an atheist.

Agnostic.

Now I just don't believe
I used to hold these things as certain.

Now I'm not sure.

He says in latter times,
this is what's going to happen.

And this is why says it's so important
for you to teach good doctrine.

Because unless you have that foundation
and that anchor, you will drift.

And here's what I know.

And here's what you know.

Drift starts with doubt.

I used to believe everything here.

Now I doubt it.
I used to believe Jesus was the only way.

Now I doubt I used to believe churches,
but now I doubt.

And drift starts with doubt.

He says in the latter
days, there will be people

who will drift

and drift and drift.

And it begins with doubt.

So he says to you,
this is why this doctrine is so important.

And they will drift from the faith.

There's a lot of, of, of, of thought about
what it means to drift from the faith.

And I'm not going to deal with the,
you know, can you lose your salvation?

Can you not lose your salvation?

What I want to talk about
is this drift from the faith.

Paul, at the beginning of this letter,
has been so focused in hammering home

the faith, meaning the doctrine,
teaching the doctrine of the church

one Savior, one Lord, one

faith, one baptism, one word of God.

And he says
they will start drifting from that.

That's why

teaching and understanding good, solid
biblical doctrine is so important.

So we don't drift from the anchor
that that's intended to be.

That's why I wrote that book, essentials.

It's in the it's in the welcome Center.

Pick it up if you haven't got one yet.

It's free for you, but it will help
you understand the essentials

of Christian biblical doctrine

to protect yourself from drift.

You know, it's so interesting

this from my younger
sons, their generation and younger.

So I'm reading study after study
that said that generate

these generations are so open
to the faith.

They're open to the truth of Scripture.

They really are

more so than other generations.

They just want something
that's real and authentic and trustworthy.

We have such an opportunity before us,

and I'm so thankful for Michael and Trish
and our youth and children's

ministry team for the work they're doing,
because this generation now,

they're ready, like,
like so few generations before them,

for the reality of who Jesus is.

And we have such an incredible opportunity
in this little community

to have a profound,

eternal impact on young lives.

And guys, we gotta capitalize on it.

Now, please understand.

I have a real hard time

with.

People who are not passionate.

I got a real difficulty

with dispassionate people.

Like they're.

There's got to be passion

for something,

and it better be the right things. And.

And I just struggle like

when I'm coach, I got a real problem
with dispassionate coaches.

Like, get off the field.

And so when it comes to this,

you want to talk about passion.

Like they're.

It's hard for me to be around

dispassionate people.

And we have such an opportunity

to be so passionate about what
this provides for this younger generation.

Like if we don't.

We dare

not neglect the opportunity
that's before us.

I was talking to Michael this week,

and we were talking to the staff
just about the summer program.

There are some churches
and I just don't understand it,

but there's some churches
that kind of give their youth team

the summer off
because they've worked hard all year long.

I think you're it.

It's you're just it it's like don't like

summertime is the time where you've been
running 80 miles an hour all year.

Well, now it's time to go hundred
and 20 miles an hour.

Load something like
you just press in an alley.

Lauren all herself last year.

Now you got used to working
with Michael. Like.

Like they don't you out.

You press hard in summertime, right?

Jeff did a few years ago.

He's kind of working them into this whole,
like, overwhelmingly work system

that we have here
in the summertime with us.

But we have to do it.

And so I told Michael, come up
with the figure, how much does it cost

us this year to run a junior
high and high school program?

How much its cost is $10,000.

This year we're going to spend ten grand

in two and a half months on our junior
high and high school kids.

It's a lot of money.

I gave him the green light,
so now you got to pay for it.

I mean, it's just worth doing right?

I mean, there's going to be a time
when they're part.

Let's let's not let it be on our watch.

He says

there's gonna to be time
when you start them,

when they're going to depart from
the truth, from the faith is these core

essential biblical doctors
and they're going to devote themselves

to deceitful spirits
and teaching the demons.

That sounds pretty nefarious, right?

Well, let me tell you how subtle this is.

Teaching of demons.

You know where we first
see that Genesis three

straight from the mouth of Satan himself

when he told Eve, here's how subtle it is.

Did God really say?

You realize if you do this

God's way, you're going
to be missing out on something.

You can have happiness and fulfillment
in a way other than what God said.

That's demonic teaching.

It's Genesis three and it's so subtle.

Because all the time

we're told in our culture,
did God really say.

Is that really the truth?

When we start thinking,

I could be more happy if I don't do it
God's way.

You mean I can have more money
if I don't tithe?

I'm not going to tithe.

I got more money.

In anybody? No.

You mean I'm human?

I could be more fulfilled.

I mean, God says,
you know, sex is only for marriage

and you shouldn't live with each other.

But I could be more fulfilled
if I live with my boyfriend or,

you know, girlfriend before marriage.

That's okay. That's.

That's a deceitful,
demonic teaching, right?

You understand this is.

It gets so subtle.

Unless we're solid on doctrine,

we're going to get to see by it.

And this is

taught through the insincerity of liars
whose consciousness are seared.

You know what that tells me?

That tells me that the the
the challenge to Christian

doesn't just come from outside the church.

It comes from inside the church,
because this is taught to God's people.

It says by teachers
with whose eyes are conscious is seared.

If you're burned, your your fingertips,
your brush, your fingertips,

the nerves get seared right
and you lose sensitivity.

He's saying
there are people who are going to teach

deceiving doctrines in the church
who have their very conscience is seared.

They're not even sensitive
to the Holy Spirit anymore.

And they're going to diverge
from sound biblical doctrine

and it's going to lead people astray.

Is false sense of discipleship.

And in their consciousness is these
people are going to forbid marriage

and Christ absence from food

that God created to be received
with thanksgiving by those

who believe and know the truth. Here's
what he's saying.

He's saying like there will be people

who will add to what God has said.

If you just do a little more than what
God has said, you'll be right with him.

You know, when we add to Scripture,
it's called legalism.

And he's saying, just like

God has after this,
go a little bit further.

If you just deny yourself
enough, God will be more pleased with you.

That's a lie from the devil.

And in this context,
when he says forbidden

marriage and certain foods,
what he's literally talking about

is not the contract of marriage,
but the intimacy in marriage.

He said,
you can have the contract of marriage,

but don't enjoy the intimacy of it
and you'll be more godly.

That's a lie from the devil.

And this food,
these delicacies in Genesis.

And then with Peter on the roof,
he God says all food is,

is is okay for you to eat.

So go ahead, have a bacon sandwich.

You know, it's okay.

Like it's, it's
I'm permitting you the freedom of that

and it's good for you to enjoy it
if you give thanks to God for no,

it might not be healthy for you,
but it's okay to enjoy.

That's what he's saying.

He said, enjoy what God provides.

Don't add to what he said.
That's legalism.

And don't,
don't, don't go soft on what he said.

That's liberalism.

Be certain
on this and then enjoy all that.

Now watch this for every verse
for for everything created by God is good.

He pronounced it good in the garden
of Eden, went before the God like

when he created all things, pronounce it
all good, and nothing is to be rejected.

If it's received with thanksgiving,
for it's made holy by the Word of God.

Emperor says, look, pleasures become holy
when received with thanksgiving.

Everything that God's given you to enjoy,
it becomes

holy when you receive it
with thanksgiving like, thank you Lord.

God like whole.

I don't know if it's a word holy.

Is it?

But here's what I want you to understand.

Here's what he's saying.

Gratitude sanctifies legalism,

sterilizes, and liberalism neutralizes.

This is what we have to understand.

And so all these things
God has given to us for our enjoyment

when we acknowledge
the giver of the gifts,

God makes the enjoyment of it a holy act.

Does it make sense to you
like he's so good

he hasn't asked you to give up anything
that isn't sin?

So the fact if you deny yourself
whatever, fine.

That's between you and God,
it doesn't make you more holy.

Like if his gift to you enjoy.

That's what Paul saying,

and I love what he says.

He said it's made
holy by the Word of God in prayer.

And he is specifically in his context
talking about

especially when you sit down to eat,
when you sit down to eat, thank God for it

because you're thinking of God
makes that time

of community and communion
with God like eating holy.

No, it doesn't mean
it makes it nutritious.

I think we should.

Every Christ
follower should pray before they eat.

Whether you're by yourself or with people.

Doesn't matter where you are.

Every Christ follower
before you partake of the goodness of God,

should acknowledge
the giver of the goodness of God.

You follow
doesn't have to be a big showy thing.

Probably shouldn't be a big holy thing
because then we,

you know, we look like a bunch of gluttons
and we're don't have self-control

because when we eat, we just shovel.

And so probably should be
a private prayer.

So, so we don't give ourselves a bad name,

but we should like
the acknowledgment of God.

But listen,
just because it makes that time

wholly between us and God doesn't mean
it makes the food nutritious.

So let's be smart. Prayers.

It does no good to go to Handel's
Ice Cream.

And before you eat your ice cream,

say God bless this to the nourishment
of my body, that I may serve you more.

God is going to say no,

I don't do that.

You can't say, God, thank you for this.

Double, double and in and out.

Bless it to nourish my body.

He'll say,
no, I'm not going to bless that.

It's bad for you.

You will be a holy moment
of having bad food, but your holy moment

won't make the food bad. It's still bad.

He will probably say, I will not bless
that for your nourishment,

but at least you'll get to me faster.

So let's just not be dumb.

Prayers,

you understand? Yes.

Give thanks to God

and eat smart.

Verse six.

If you put these things
before the brothers, you will be

a good servant of Christ Jesus,
being trained in the words of the faith

and of the good doctrine
that you have followed.

Here's what I'm saying when he says,
put these things before the brothers,

when he uses those
words, what he's saying here

is to remind them.

Just remind them

there are some things we just need
to be reminded of stuff, right?

Like, like but many of you,
you've been in church a long time,

and some of you have sat with me
for 20 years.

Most of the stuff you know,

but we just got to be reminded of it.

Sometimes you hear it in a different way
and it just makes more sense.

And sometimes I say it in a way
that makes you okay.

Now I get that.

But much, much of this,
you know, just got to be reminded of it.

Parents, please understand
your kids need constant reminders

of who God is, of who

Jesus is, of how trustworthy
the word is, of how right it is to live

according to the Word of God,
of how much it protects them.

They just need reminders from you,

of God's

goodness, of his sovereignty, of his plan

to be patient and wait on the Lord,
that his mind is far above ours.

His ways are different than ours.
They're better than ours.

They don't need a sermon from you.

They just need reminders from you.

Does it make sense? Yes.

They remind them.

I don't know how many times I've had
the privilege of reminding my sons

of what they already learned

in Sunday school, in youth group,
from their leaders, from their mother,

from me, from the scripture
that they've read themselves.

I don't know how many have had
the privilege.

And remember, son,

don't lose sight of this.

I know you don't feel it right
now, but remember.

Listen.

And here's why it's so important.

Because what we

forget, we eventually neglect,

even if we know it,

what we forget, we eventually neglect.

It's one reason why it's so important
for us to be together on Sunday mornings.

Because we remember together.

And I get it.

And Paul says in Romans, every day
belongs, Lord, every day.

It should be a day of worship.

Absolutely, 100%.

Can you worship on days of him
Sunday? 100%.

You can.

And I understand people say, well,
because I can worship on any day,

I'll worship with my family
up at the lake.

I'm like,

well, that's I mean, I get it,
and if you're going to do it

as an act of worship to God, fantastic.

But it's so difficult to be reminded
of these things in isolation.

We're
reminded of these things in community.

Do you understand and

remind them of these things?

What you forget you'll neglect?

It's so good for us to be together
and be reminded.

And then look at this seven and eight
I'm going to press into this.

Have nothing to do.

Is that all I want to say about that?

I think it is.

I know time

for seven have nothing to do
with irreverent, silly myths.

Rather, here's the option train yourself
for godliness.

For all. Bodily training is of some value.

Godliness is a value in every way,

as it holds promise for the present life
and also for the life to come.

Let me camp on this for a little bit.

He says.

He's going to he's he's going to compare
godly training to athletic training.

Okay? So make those those connections.

It makes sense in my world
when he uses this train.

Train yourself for godliness.

That word
train is the Greek word gymnasium,

which where we get our word gymnasium
or the gym.

He's saying, work out.

Go to the gym of godliness.

Train yourself at the gym for godliness.

He's saying all of that physical training,
athletic training,

physical strength is of some value.

Godly training is of eternal value.

When Paul says God, physical training
is some value, he means temporal value.

It is good for us.

But what's better for us because it's
beneficial both temporally and eternally?

Is spiritual workouts
more than physical workouts?

Not that physical workouts are bad,
but spiritual workouts are eternal.

That's what he's saying.

So here's let me press in here.

Godliness is the result

of hard spiritual work.

It's great for us to be here, encouraged

together, mutually edified,
mutually reminded.

But godliness doesn't happen by sitting

in comfortable chairs.

Godliness happens by hard, consistent,

disciplined spiritual workouts.

Every day

when my sons were young and growing up,
from the time there were little

in our way up all the way up
through college, playing football

every season, the moment season ended,

they would come to me and say,
dad, let's start training.

I didn't push it. I didn't ask them.

I didn't tell them
because they had this internal drive

that they understood that
to do what they wanted to do

required constant, consistent, hard
freaking work.

The moment season ended, boom.

We're back at it.

At their request,

I need to make sure you understand
that I wasn't one of those dads.

And every time they said, let's go,

I was with them.

Most people want to be fit.

A few people put in a work.

Most people want to be spiritual.

A few people put in the work.

I have a very difficult time

with passionless people.

Physical training is of some value,
no doubt.

Spiritual training is more.

Now listen.

I exercise

every day.

And I, I realized a few years back,

and God gave me this.

He said, Carl,
I think you put all my heart.

I want to preach, teach and coach
until I'm 80 years old

with energy and passion and

and and and and,
you know, piss and vinegar.

They say like,
I just want a president as tall.

I'm 80 years old.

And I realized to do that, I got it.

I got to take care of my body.

And I
want to present time, and I don't want to

I don't want to take care of my body
just so I can see my kids and my grandkids

till I'm 80.

That's a perk.

But you do understand something.

I'm going to be with my kids and grandkids
through eternity.

Yeah, and we're going to be
on a real earth together in bodily form.

I get them for eternity,
so I'm good there.

I don't get them as much as I want here,
but I get them for eternity.

I know their salvation

and so I don't want to live a healthy time
80 so I get more time with them.

That's a perk.

I want to be healthy so I can preach,

teach and coach till I'm 80
because I don't get to do that in heaven.

You understand God and so and so.

I have to exercise every day.

But when I exercise,

I listen to teachings,

commentaries, sermons, worship music.

So it's after worship
and go through my prayer list.

So my physical exercise is attached
to my spiritual workouts.

Does that make sense? Yes.

I mean.

I don't want to talk about this
as the come to nation.

I just want to talk about it
as a as a caution.

Would any of you at all

think that

you can lose weight and get in shape
because you're a pastor

each right, and runs?

Anybody?

Yeah.

Yeah, it doesn't work that way, does it?

So why do we think it works

that way with this?

So you okay?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Here's what I know.

And again, not as accommodation,
just as a caution.

The culture is set up against

disciplined discipleship,

and we experience it in profound ways
right now in this season that we're in,

because it's called travel ball.

And I talked to,

David White,
who's a part of our leadership here.

Loves the Lord, is
raising his family in the Lord.

And he's one of the leaders of the
baseball youth baseball world out here.

And he struggles with this.
And he and I had a conversation.

I called him, said, David,
this is what I'm talking about on Sunday.

I want to make sure you and I are good,
because I'm gonna say some things that,

if you don't understand

my heart,

are going to seem like a critique
and it's not a critique,

and you need to make sure you're talking

to all these other families of ours,
right now.

And I can count on both hands,
on both feet,

how many families
we have doing travel ball right now.

And so so
you need to translate this for them

because I don't want them, you know,
thinking I said something I didn't say.

But let me say.

The travel ball world where there's
baseball, soccer I don't care what it is.

The travel ball world is set up
antithetical to the discipleship world,

because it's set up to condition
our culture,

not to think twice about missing church.

Now David does a good job

between games on on, on on tournaments.

On Sunday, they'll watch the live stream.

They'll gather our flip side people
that is with around the watch

a live stream or you know,
they'll have the Bible study and pray.

And he's doing a great job at that.

And I commend him for it.

And he makes sure that the flip side,
people that he's traveling with

are a part of the community.

And and so there's a

there's a part of this that is his mission
field, as is the football field mind.

But he's also real life.

And that's part of his discipleship, too.

And we have to be careful
about the standards that we're setting

just to be that, well,
this is just what we do.

Acceptance.

Rather than being driven
by the prompting of the Holy Spirit.

And I was talking to David, said, David,
there's three ways

we can approach this travel ball season
and where you can start discipling church

people in this understanding,
because most people, most Christians

in this travel ball world, go into it
without any thought whatsoever.

That's just the culture.

And this is just what we do
in the summertime. We just miss church.

I'll see you in August or September
without any thought.

There's got to be thought,

there's got to be purpose behind it.

So I told David,
I said one thing you can do.

And we did a some years back,

we held a Sunday night service
for our travel ball families,

and the only ones who came
were our travel families.

And I did the whole message
all over again just for them.

It's one way we do it.

Another way we do
it is to have travel ball, church,

you know, and do what David's doing.

Yes, yes, we're missing here,
but we're still the church there

and we're going to gather as the church.
That's fantastic.

How about it? Make sure you do it.

It's a great testament,
a great discipleship.

But the other way is the Eric little way

back in the Olympics, I think in the world
that the 40s or whatever,

the 20s,
I don't when it was a long time ago,

and he was an Olympic sprinter.

And the qualifying for the Olympics
for his is his,

meet or for his race was on a Sunday
and he went to Olympic Committee says.

And on Sunday it's a Sabbath day.

So he changed his entire, his entire,

entry into a, an event
that was on Sunday is amazing.

And God honored it with a medal.

And I just wonder, I wonder how God would
honor it if the travel ball families

went to the travel ball coaches and said,
we are all yours

except for Sunday 8 a.m. till noon.

I just wonder how God would honor that.

I don't know, because I've never seen
any parent bold enough in this type

of bold enough to do it.

All I know is this when it becomes

the norm to miss corporate worship,

and we don't think twice about it,

something's wrong.

What I know is what you know.

Downfall follows distance.

Downfall of faith

follows distance of godliness.

And when we make excuses and find excuses
not to come,

not to serve,
not to lead, not to do, not to give.

Downfall as soon to follow.

And as parents, we have to be very careful

about what we're modeling
and mentoring for our children

because we will mentor,
mentor and model them into a distance

that will lead to their downfall
without even thinking about it.

You understand? Yes.

You okay?

We understand what you training is.

You talk about physical training involves
two things nutrition and exertion.

If we're going to train our souls
physically.

Nutrition and exertion, nutrition.

You gotta eat right?

It's been said
you can't out train a bad diet.

So nutrition what we take it

and then exertion we
you got to push stuff right.

You got to get the miles in.

You gotta get the the strength
the strenuous labor in.

You got

you nutrition.

You got to limit the saturated fat.

You got to increase the monounsaturated,
the polyunsaturated.

You got to limit the calories.
You got to limit the sodium.

You got to limit
the all the glucose level.

You got to limit you got to watch that
stuff, increase the protein,

the lean protein stuff, the exertion.

You got to get the heart rate up
to whatever that heart rate is for you.

You got to get your,
you know, 30 minutes of exercise a day.

You got to get 10,000 steps.

Like, we understand that it's
the same thing in the spiritual world.

Nutrition and exertion.

What is your spiritual intake?

What is your spiritual nutrition?

If it's one time a week,
spiritual nutrition and then the other

six days are full of spiritual junk
fruit in the music, let's do.

And what you look at online
and on the on the streaming stuff.

What kind of diet is that?

If your

diet that bad, guarantee
you it's adult diabetes right

now, you're going to die that way
spiritually.

The exertion. What?

Your exertion level spiritually.

If our exertion level consists
of getting up on a Sunday morning

because we're tired from sitting down
and sitting in the air

conditioned room in a cushioned chair,
that's not much exertion.

Right.

We're.

You okay?

Here's what I'm saying.

Our Bible should be more worn out that
our gym gear and our running shoes that.

Amen.

That's what Paul saying.

Let me press through this.

I know what time it is.

You know what time it is.

Verse ten.

For to this end we toil and strife

because we have our hope
set on the living God,

who is the Savior of all people,
especially of those who believe.

We toil and strive in this

life. We press into this.

We're passionate about this stuff

because we our hope is in the living God.

There's no other religion that ever

in the history of man
that has a living founder of it.

Every other leader
of every other religion has been founded

by a founder
who's dead, decayed and worm food.

Except Christianity is the only one
whose founder died and rose again

and is alive today.

Nobody could ever disprove his death
nor his resurrection because it happened.

And that is what our hope is in.

And we press into these things
because of that living God,

because he is a salvation for all people,
especially those who believe

this is what it means.

He is a salvation for all people.

Not that all people will be saved,
potentially the Savior of all people,

actually the Savior of those
who will believe

do you understand that
potentially the salvation of all,

but actually the salvation
of those who believe?

And because I believe it, I'm going to
press into this because he's worthy of it.

Yeah, yeah.

He says, come,
man, verse 11, and teach these things.

When he says, come in.

He said, this is,
this is as a military officer,

you don't suggest these things to people
you don't politely encourage.

This is a command
from a commanding officer to the troops.

This is the standard.
This is what we'll do.

This is the expectation. I've lived it.

You live it.

This is this is who we are now.

You understand? Yeah. Yeah.

This this is this is the passion.

A part of it.

Let no one despise you for your youth.

But, set the believers

an example in speech and conduct
and love and faith and purity until I come

devote yourself to the public, reading
scriptures, to exhortation, to teaching.

Instead said, looking.

Don't let anybody down on you for your
youth.

He's in his 30 years old.

He's in his 30s. There's only 30s.

He's not like a teenage kid.

But when it's an old man

talking to a 30 year old,
he talk to him like he's a young man

and he's saying, look at you.

Set the example.

You become the standard in your speech.

So let's translate it.

If you and I, if you think for yourself,
if you are the standard of what godliness

is according to your speech,
how is that standard?

If you are the standard
for godliness in your posts,

how is that standard?

Set an example for everybody in speech

and setting sample for everybody
and conduct in your lifestyle.

If your lifestyle is the standard,
what's that say

in speech, in conduct, in love?

That's agape

love, self-sacrificial love, giving
without expecting anything in return.

Sacrifice?

Well, either,

if that you set the standard for that for
everybody is what he's saying

in speech and conduct, in love,

in faith that is actually faithfulness,
not just faithfulness to the doctrine

through God's Word,
but faithfulness and what,

like what we say we will do,
we're not going to tap out

and we're not going to back away,
and we're not going to back out of

something
we said we would do. We're faithful.

And you set the standard and impurity

says you set the standard for purity.

So just understand,
just think if I am the standard for this,

what does that standard look like?

And if we do set that standard
according to biblical doctrine,

people can say
whatever they want about us.

It doesn't matter,

because that is.

And Jesus set the standard for this.

Devote yourself to it

and to the reading of Scripture,
exhortation and teaching.

The role here is to teach this

and escort it to people

like, let's be encouraged with this.

This is our job.

So what we do?

I mean, just real quick here,

father's day is coming up.

Dads, please understand

your life is your legacy.

Your legacy is not what you leave
your kids

and an inheritance.

Your life

is your legacy.

What your family sees in you.

Your family will repeat. Or.

And so if there's things that you prayed.

God, please don't let my family repeat
that part of me.

I get it.

That's where

you become the model of God's grace.

Relying on the grace of God for you

and giving that grace

to others.

And let that be the legacy,
if nothing else,

what I'm saying is this.

I don't want to say that yet.

Yeah.

Your godliness

requires discipline, not just your desire.

You understand that?

Our godliness requires discipline,

not just desire.

What it means to be disciplined

is that we choose what we want
most over what we want.

Now, guys, if we could get that dialed
in, we'd be doing

all right.

What I know

is what you know
that discipline beats inspiration.

Every time.

Discipline beats inspiration every time.

Discipline has to do with the decision
in here.

Inspiration
has to do with what you can provide me.

And I don't want to leave
my God pursuit of godliness

and my mentorship of my family to someone

else, inspiring me to be someone different
that I'm not in here.

Does that make sense?

So to dad, certainly,
but also to all of us.

But especially with the Father's Day
coming up. Just think about this.

We have to like we we need to be
the sermon that our family remembers,

not preach a sermon our family remembers.

That's what Paul saying to Timothy.

Listen,
we can't lead if we don't follow well,

and we can't serve if we don't eat well.

Your and my consistency will preach louder

and more convincingly
than any opinion or post we can make.

It's what he's talking about.

Press into this,

for to this end we store.

We toil. Command him in these things.

Don't let anybody look down on you.

Be the example.

I mean, as a coach, I understand
we can't play

well on Friday night if we don't practice
well Monday through Thursday.

Spiritually, it's the same thing.

Spiritually, it's the same thing.

We can't lead well if we live sloppy.

Dad, do you understand that this

disciples.

You understand that?

So Paul's saying.

14 1516

do not neglect the gift you have
which was given you by a prophecy

when the council of elders
laid their hands on you.

Practice these things,
immerse yourselves in them,

so that all may see your progress.

He's saying, prove yourself
by what you do, not by what you say.

Let people judge your life by what you do
because you're doing it right

and nothing wrong with it.

Keep a close watch on yourself
and on the teaching.

Persist in this, for by doing
so you will save both yourself

and you and your hearers. Here's
what I'm saying.

He said, look, you follow Jesus.

You've been given a gift,
a spiritual gift.

That Greek word is charismatic.
It's a spiritual gift.

You've been given it by God.

If you're a believer in Jesus

and you're saying, use that gift
to press into your spiritual workouts.

In serving
God's kingdom through his church

and ignored gift blesses no one.

If you're a Christ, for
you have at least one spiritual gift.

And again, in the Welcome Center,
I got a little inventory there

so you can figure out
what your spiritual gifts are

and then places
you can serve in this church

so you can press into godliness.

Remember, you'll find a reason or excuse

right?

Right. I

you got to do these workouts.

You just practice
immerse yourselves him when he says

immerse yourself in him
he says take a deep dive in them.

Don't make them cursory.

Don't make them well,
my my schedule clears up.

Don't make them.

When the when the schedule says
I don't make it a side thing like you

immerse yourself in this, you jump into
this stuff, you dive into this stuff. Why?

Because God is worthy of it.

How? No more reasons do you need?

Yeah.

How many more reasons do you need?

Keep a close
watch on yourself and your teaching.

Persist in this,
for by persisting in these things,

you will see both yourself in your.

Here's here's what he's saying.

When we neglect these things,

we put others salvation at risk

because we are the conduit.

It's always the work of the Holy Spirit.

Please don't misunderstand me.

It's always the work of God,
the Holy Spirit.

But he's chosen to tie
his work to our hands.

When we neglect this,
it's to our detriment

and to those who are coming up under us
and our huddle around us.

Part of their salvation
is contingent upon our godliness.

Wow. Do you see this?

Yeah.

So what he's saying is that

your contribution
authenticate your calling.

We're called to this.

And the fact that I'm called
to it's proved my

my contribution proves it
authenticates the call.

I have

and yours does to

see, at the end of the day,

visible faith is what confirms
authentic faith.

Invisible faith

authenticates in authentic faith.

Faith is not meant to be invisible.

Visible faith authenticates faith.

And so Paul says, press into this.

He is.

God is so good,

and he's so worthy and is so gracious,
and he's so merciful and he's so loving.

He's the creator of your soul,
the crafter of your life,

and the secure of your destiny.

What other reasons do you need

to press into this?

So in essence, he's saying,
ask yourself this

if I am the standard,
what's the state of my church?

If I'm the

standard, what's the state of faith?

If I'm the standard,
what's the state of discipleship?

Press into this.

Train yourself for it.

To understand

where.

You okay?

Listen, it is a high calling,

and it's a worthy calling.

And then something
the Holy Spirit enables us to fulfill.

And as you press in, you will be enabled.

But if you tap out,

that's all on you.

That's what he's telling Timothy.

You got enough for today.

You get.

I think I need to let off the gas
a little bit.

Father.

Thank you.

You're a good God.

You you're mercies are new every morning.

Your grace is sufficient.

And your forgiveness is

constant.

Thank you.

Father, you know, as far as I'm concerned,

you know the times and seasons of my life
where I was just so apathetic

and so negligent and so arrogant

and so prideful and so full of hubris.

And I thank you

that in the midst of my own stuff
that you didn't

cast me aside.

You've been so good

and so merciful
and so gracious towards me.

I don't need any other reasons

to train hard
after you and to press into this.

I don't need any other reasons, you
to motivate me to be passionate.

I don't need any other reasons.

And father, I feel like there's
a lot of people who here

who could say the same
or should say the same.

Thank you for your mercy.

Thank you for your grace for us.

You've already done enough

for us to press in hard after you

to be passionate about your things,
to train hard and godliness.

You've already done enough.

Friends, I invite you
in the quietness of this moment

just to think for a little bit.

I would dare you

to just say to God, say,

father, forgive me for my apathy.

Forgive me for my lethargy.

Forgive me for willingly

sitting on the sidelines

for far too long.

I repent

of my lethargy.

I repent of my apathy.

I repent.

Of settling for far below mediocrity

in terms of faith.

And father, I ask over those

who in repentance are coming to you
and saying, God, forgive me up.

You deserve more of me.

I ask that in repentance, father,

that you would give them all
that your grace allows you,

all that your grace allows
the full measure

and magnitude of your mercy
and your grace, giving them

all the blessings that they don't deserve,
that I don't deserve.

But by your grace, you give. It's.

Thank you in repentance, father,
give us all that your grace allows.

And I pray that we would choose

discipline over inspiration.

To value
and to press into that which matters

most over that which we want. Now.

That we would live as the standard,

not with pride or arrogance,

but with humility, out of gratitude
for everything you've done.

You're a good God.

Good God,

help us to love you with our whole heart
and soul and mind and strength.

It's in the name of Jesus that we pray.

Amen.

Listen, I love you.

Please understand that
even if I came across it like I don't,

I really do.

I'm so thankful that God's chosen you
to be a part of this church.

I value you,

please understand that

we love you.

Thank you.

Go this week and read first Timothy four
as if it's Paul's

letter to you through the Holy Spirit,

and read

chapter five and see where we're going.

And we'll get there.

We are becoming all that God created us
to be

the image of Christ in this world.

And we're so further along now, the moment
we're a year ago.

Yeah.

And especially more than a decade ago.

Yeah.

So look at where we are. It's good.

It's good. Progress.

We're getting there.

We're being made into his image. It's
good.

Let's just not get settled.

Right? Right.

Got a championship to win.

We're like one game in.

Let's work hard.

Yeah.

And enjoy the doing of it.

Yeah. Somebody say quit preaching.